Wednesday, December 28, 2005
Pralines
For our Creole Christmas we found this great Holiday version of the southern classic at Beauty Food Joy, a Southern Blogger. Amy takes an extra step or two to give her Pralines a very special Holiday spice and narrates the slightly 'spicy' history of these wonderful sweets. We've borrowed Amy's recipe and veganized it for you. Joyeux Noël
Ingredients
2 1/2 cups granulated sugar
1 1/2 Cups (12-ounces) evaporated milk soy milk - Directions: Put 3 cups of soy or rice milk in a saucepan. Cook over medium-low heat, stirring constantly, until the volume is reduced to 1 & 1/2 cups.
2 tablespoons soy spread
1 teaspoon kosher salt
1/2 teaspoon cinnamon
1/2 teaspoon nutmeg
2 cups pecan halves, divided
Preparation
1. Mix sugar, evaporated soy milk, soy spread, salt, and spices in a large heavy-bottomed pan over medium heat until well combined.
2. Bring to a boil, stirring occasionally, until mixture reaches the soft ball stage, or 234 degrees on a candy thermometer.
3. Remove from heat and beat mixture for a few minutes until creamy and thick. Do not overbeat, or the candy will be too thick and not spread as it should. It’s also important not to underbeat or the pralines will spread too much instead of crystallizing.
4. Mix in the pecans.
5. Drop teaspoons of the mixture onto sheets of wax paper and let cool. Work quickly, so the candy doesn’t harden before you’re done (if it does, simply reheat the pan over a Bain Marie).
6. Remove candies from wax paper when hardened. Pralines taste best when eaten within a week or two. Makes approximately 2 dozen small pralines.
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Monday, December 26, 2005
Vegetarian Mom's Sacrifice for Meat Eating Family
The following reprinted with permission from The Savvy Vegetarian Judy Kingsbury from her feature feature column in Greener Magazine, The Green Advisor
Dear Judy,
I have been a vegetarian since I was a little kid. Meat just seems to turn my stomach, even the thought of it. The problem is that I married a man who loves meat and wants our children to eat meat. I have been very frustrated in trying to please everyone at mealtimes, so I just make a meal for my family and eat veggies and potatoes.
It is very, very boring so I find myself craving sweets alot to make up for it. It seems like all that I eat are carbohydrates and I am concerned that I am not getting the proper protein that my body needs. I have been told that if your body doesn't get enough protein it starts to consume itself. Is this true? I have lost a lot of muscle and gained fat in its place and I feel very low on energy. I want very much to get back into shape but feel like I'm stuck in a rut. Do you have any suggestions for menus and gaining back muscle? Thanks.- A.S.
Dear A.S.,
When I read your letter, I had to go away and think about it for a while, because I felt like climbing up on my feminist soapbox. But I realized that you're probably a tired busy wife and mom who maybe has a day job. And you're caught up with caring for your family, and putting their needs ahead of your own like lots of women do.
But it doesn't work if one person does all the giving and sacrificing. That doesn't mean that you should force your family into anything, but it may be that your husband isn't even aware that you're suffering. And kids often are oblivious. So you have to tell them what you need, and give it to yourself. Family counselling might be good if there's a lot of resistance.
On the practical side, the sweet cravings are a sign of nutritional imbalance. You're right that veggies and potatoes aren't enough. You need whole grains, beans, tofu, nuts, seeds. So along with your side of veg - easy on the potatoes - have a whole grain tortilla with hummus or almond butter. Or a wrap with refried beans. Or cook some whole grains and freeze them in individual servings. Same with bean dishes.
Keep some cottage cheese or tempeh or baked tofu or nuts or canned beans on hand to add to meals too. For breakfast, eat a fortified whole grain bread or cereal, maybe an egg. Make sure there are green veggies in your life. And fresh fruit. Take a supplement for a while - make sure it has folic acid, B12, calcium, Vit D, magnesium, zinc.
Once your husband is willing to give your diet equal time, then make some grain/veggie dishes for you all to share a few times a week. And green salads, with extras like chick peas, olives, feta, avocado, sunflower seeds, walnuts etc thrown in. There is absolutely no reason why your meat loving husband or your children shouldn't eat some vegetarian dishes too.
Unfair and underappreciated it may be, but it's generally up to Mom to make sure the family eats right! And let them know that you're not a short order cook.
This is pure speculation, but it could be a combination of too many calories and not enough nutrients, along with inactivity that has caused you to lose muscle and gain fat. And don't worry - the body only consumes itself with outright starvation - it'll convert fat to energy before muscle mass.
I suggest that you start taking a supplement right away to perk you up, then you'll have some energy to start working on your diet and your family's diet. Try to get out in the fresh air and walk, or do some yoga, maybe garden, or swim - those activities improve your fitness and your state of mind at the same time. Maybe hang out with adult friends once a week, and make some time for you and your husband away from the kids.
Always, always take time to nurture yourself. You deserve it and your family does too. A Happy Mom is a Good Mom, I've always thought.
I've attached the report Veg NonVeg Eat Together - there's a section on cohabiting. I also recommend The New Becoming Vegetarian, by Vesanto Melina as an excellent vegetarian nutrition reference. And the Vegetarian 5-Ingredient Gourmet by Nava Atlas as a source of easy, quick delicious family friendly vegetarian recipes.
I'm sure I've gone on plently long enough, and I hope it's helped a little. Best of everything to you and your family - please let me know how it goes.
Response from A.S.:
Hi Judy,
Thank you so much for responding to my questions. You have given me some good ideas. I realized through your email that my thinking has been skewed. I am one of those who think to be a vegetarian you have to just replace the meat with a slab of tofu. It's going to take some major adjusting to start thinking differently about my sources of protein coming from grains and beans and vegetables but I think this is what I have been misunderstanding. It goes against everything I've been told all my life. I get so many concerned looks and comments from people when they find out I'm a vegetarian but your email has given me some peace. This is who I am and I'm not going to fight against it anymore. It's going to take a lot of effort and time but I have to make me more of a priority.
Dear Judy,
I have been a vegetarian since I was a little kid. Meat just seems to turn my stomach, even the thought of it. The problem is that I married a man who loves meat and wants our children to eat meat. I have been very frustrated in trying to please everyone at mealtimes, so I just make a meal for my family and eat veggies and potatoes.
It is very, very boring so I find myself craving sweets alot to make up for it. It seems like all that I eat are carbohydrates and I am concerned that I am not getting the proper protein that my body needs. I have been told that if your body doesn't get enough protein it starts to consume itself. Is this true? I have lost a lot of muscle and gained fat in its place and I feel very low on energy. I want very much to get back into shape but feel like I'm stuck in a rut. Do you have any suggestions for menus and gaining back muscle? Thanks.- A.S.
Dear A.S.,
When I read your letter, I had to go away and think about it for a while, because I felt like climbing up on my feminist soapbox. But I realized that you're probably a tired busy wife and mom who maybe has a day job. And you're caught up with caring for your family, and putting their needs ahead of your own like lots of women do.
But it doesn't work if one person does all the giving and sacrificing. That doesn't mean that you should force your family into anything, but it may be that your husband isn't even aware that you're suffering. And kids often are oblivious. So you have to tell them what you need, and give it to yourself. Family counselling might be good if there's a lot of resistance.
On the practical side, the sweet cravings are a sign of nutritional imbalance. You're right that veggies and potatoes aren't enough. You need whole grains, beans, tofu, nuts, seeds. So along with your side of veg - easy on the potatoes - have a whole grain tortilla with hummus or almond butter. Or a wrap with refried beans. Or cook some whole grains and freeze them in individual servings. Same with bean dishes.
Keep some cottage cheese or tempeh or baked tofu or nuts or canned beans on hand to add to meals too. For breakfast, eat a fortified whole grain bread or cereal, maybe an egg. Make sure there are green veggies in your life. And fresh fruit. Take a supplement for a while - make sure it has folic acid, B12, calcium, Vit D, magnesium, zinc.
Once your husband is willing to give your diet equal time, then make some grain/veggie dishes for you all to share a few times a week. And green salads, with extras like chick peas, olives, feta, avocado, sunflower seeds, walnuts etc thrown in. There is absolutely no reason why your meat loving husband or your children shouldn't eat some vegetarian dishes too.
Unfair and underappreciated it may be, but it's generally up to Mom to make sure the family eats right! And let them know that you're not a short order cook.
This is pure speculation, but it could be a combination of too many calories and not enough nutrients, along with inactivity that has caused you to lose muscle and gain fat. And don't worry - the body only consumes itself with outright starvation - it'll convert fat to energy before muscle mass.
I suggest that you start taking a supplement right away to perk you up, then you'll have some energy to start working on your diet and your family's diet. Try to get out in the fresh air and walk, or do some yoga, maybe garden, or swim - those activities improve your fitness and your state of mind at the same time. Maybe hang out with adult friends once a week, and make some time for you and your husband away from the kids.
Always, always take time to nurture yourself. You deserve it and your family does too. A Happy Mom is a Good Mom, I've always thought.
I've attached the report Veg NonVeg Eat Together - there's a section on cohabiting. I also recommend The New Becoming Vegetarian, by Vesanto Melina as an excellent vegetarian nutrition reference. And the Vegetarian 5-Ingredient Gourmet by Nava Atlas as a source of easy, quick delicious family friendly vegetarian recipes.
I'm sure I've gone on plently long enough, and I hope it's helped a little. Best of everything to you and your family - please let me know how it goes.
Response from A.S.:
Hi Judy,
Thank you so much for responding to my questions. You have given me some good ideas. I realized through your email that my thinking has been skewed. I am one of those who think to be a vegetarian you have to just replace the meat with a slab of tofu. It's going to take some major adjusting to start thinking differently about my sources of protein coming from grains and beans and vegetables but I think this is what I have been misunderstanding. It goes against everything I've been told all my life. I get so many concerned looks and comments from people when they find out I'm a vegetarian but your email has given me some peace. This is who I am and I'm not going to fight against it anymore. It's going to take a lot of effort and time but I have to make me more of a priority.
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